People today put a lot of thought into defining their sexual orientation. I've always thought that I could just accept & love everyone as whatever they are & that was enough. As a heterosexual female my only role appeared to be one of support of all orientations.
That's changing though. Because I've changed. I'm still heterosexual but really I'm asexual. I'm 66 and I don't care if I ever have sex with another person again. I don't have negative feelings towards men and sex, I just don't have the desire to participate anymore.
I do, however have romantic leanings. I like flirting with men. I like reading & writing romance (though not actual sex acts).
I discovered there is a category I fall under: ACE
I don't have a lack of libido that needs to be fixed.
As a romantic, asexual woman ditching the term heterosexual to define myself as and embrace ACE, I am whole and healthy.
Fell In Love With A Boy by Joss Stone
(This rendition is good but I must admit I like the energy & feel of it better when the White Stripes do it as Fell In Love With A Girl - maybe I'll just change the words when I sing along. The way Jack White does it - it's a breathing exercise.)
Fell In Love With A Girl by the White Stripes